Parents' Vows Due to Normal Childbirth Process
THAT AFTERNOON, after the test hours at the Darussalam education board, Activities throughout the Islamic boarding school environment have returned to normal. Some students are busy doing personal activities. Some also appeared to be doing learning activities together.
The atmosphere around the As-Safiiyah dormitory which is located behind KH's residence. Khaliq Syafaat looked bright with the hadrah training activities carried out by the female students. that afternoon, Jawa Pos Radar Banyuwangi is waiting for a student who has become a hot topic of conversation because he has a quite unique name, which consists of just one letter Q.
After waiting for a long time 15 minute, two girls came out of the dormitory, one of the two is Q. When telling about the origins of the unique name he bears, The girl, who was still wearing a school uniform, revealed that her father gave her the name.
Not just to be unique, This name was given as a form of parental gratitude, Imam Rapii and Damayanti for his birth. According to the story of this girl with the zodiac sign Aquarius, at the birth of his brother, Nur Imada Fatimatuzzahra, 15, The birth process experienced by the mother had to be via cesarean section.
From that incident, then his father made a vow to give the name Q to the second child if it could be passed normally. “Dulu kakaknya dikandungan besar, continued cesarean birth. Then the father said that if his child did not give birth, he would be named Q,” kenang kakak dari Nur Muhammad Ainul yaqin, 12, and Liwalana Nuwafi Futuhiyata Rihil Jannah, 5, this.
Not only unique to other people's ears, for female students who are currently sitting in class VII F MTs Al Amiriyah Flagship Program, the name also sounded unique to his own ears. Even, Q's curiosity regarding the meaning of this name also arose and became a question for his parents.
“Q itu artinya kunci, if it's in Arabic he says take care," he said. Having a unique name certainly brings its own experience to Q, He often experiences distrust of new friends and new environments in his name. including when entering the Darussalam Islamic boarding school. “Nama saya aneh kata mereka," he said.
When he was going to take the national exam, problems arise when registering via the online system. Once the name entry is done, the system on the computer is not responding. Even, At that time the family was given the option by the school to change their child's name. To change or add to the child's name.
“Dulu pernah mau diganti syaratnya di depan ada Q-nya. But when I wanted to replace it, it turned out that it was possible on another computer,he explained. Although I had a little problem with the name, However, during Q's days at the Islamic boarding school there were no problems.
Every day, outside of learning activities in the Mathematics and Natural Sciences department class and learning activities in the Madrasah Diniyah class, he can still do his hobby of starting to read novels, wrote short stories and doodled in his diary.
“Saya suka baca novel, Small Letter to God and Delisha Prayer Memorization,” jelasnya sembari menunjukkan coretan doodle dibukunya. This girl, who dreams of becoming a designer, admits that sometimes she wants to change her name. However, after thinking about it again, He was preoccupied with the name his parents gave him.
“Sometimes I also want to change my name, but don't know what to replace it with," he said. In the eyes of the school, Q's presence at school is quite prominent in terms of academics. This expression was conveyed directly by the head of MTs Al Amiriyah, Masrofi.
According to him, Q's current performance is quite good. His interest in learning is quite high, This cannot be separated from the conditions and environment of the school in the class. “Dia tergolong menengah ke atas,” ujar Masrofi.
Regarding Q's hobby of writing short stories and making doodles, Masrofi said that currently at school there is a forum that accommodates hobbies in this field. “Itu ada wadahnya, The practice in third grade was to make short stories and we wrote them down, We publish it through ISBN publishers," he explained.
“Java Pos Radar Banyuwangi journalists yesterday tried to meet Q's parents in Banjarsari Village. Q's residence is west of the Banjarsari Village T-junction, near the house of former DPRD member Utomo Dauwis.
Q is the second child from Imam Rapii's marriage to Damayanti, 42. Damayanti confirmed that her second child was given a name with one letter. Because of the name Q, He once experienced difficulties when managing the registration number at the Islamic Elementary School (SDI) AI-Khariyah.
Computer programs cannot input student data that only contains one letter character. The school suggested changing the name to get a school registration number. Until the end, Damayanti changed her child's name to four letters, namely Qiqi so that the school does not have difficulty inputting the data. Was given two choices of names, or Q Ajalia Nazwa and Qiqi.
“Dia sering sekali meminta agar namanya diubah seperti nama saudaranya yang lain, who have a long name, not just one letter Q,” ungkap Damayanti yang telah berpisah lama dengan suaminya, Imam Rapii.
This mother of four children said, His son often gets ridiculed by his friends who don't know him or just found out that his name has the letter Q. After school, Q sometimes cries because he is often bullied and made fun of by his friends.
“Saya merasa sangat sedih saat melihatnya seperti itu,” kenang Damayanti. Sometimes children are not confident when socializing with their peers in their home environment. “Akhimya Q sering mengurung diri di rumah dan tidak pernah keluar rumah saat pulang dari pondok,” ungkap Retno, one of Damayanti's neighbors. (radar)